http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/22/its-not-that/ Fri, 11 Nov 2011 01:12:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/22/its-not-that/comment-page-1/#comment-6 Gwen Sun, 24 Feb 2008 05:07:31 +0000 http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/22/its-not-that/#comment-6 I appreciate the re-framing used in this reading. It reminds me that I'm not stupid or crazy. And it re-iterates what I've read in the book, When Love Hurts, that I am not the problem - the abuser is. There is nothing I can do to fix our relationship because he is choosing to act out of a completely different/unhealthy frame of reference. I appreciate the re-framing used in this reading. It reminds me that I’m not stupid or crazy. And it re-iterates what I’ve read in the book, When Love Hurts, that I am not the problem – the abuser is. There is nothing I can do to fix our relationship because he is choosing to act out of a completely different/unhealthy frame of reference.

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