Comments on: Why does my partner hurt me? http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/why-does-my-partner-hurt-me/ Fri, 02 Mar 2012 21:03:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Karen http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/why-does-my-partner-hurt-me/comment-page-1/#comment-6398 Karen Thu, 17 Feb 2011 19:43:19 +0000 http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/why-does-my-partner-hurt-me/#comment-6398 My suggestion would be, after you have read the book "When Love Hurts" to read the book "Why Does He Do That" by Lundy Bancroft. Lundy is a male counsellor who has worked with abusive men for many years. He really helps women to understand the abusive man's mind frame. Lundy has a great website too. You can google him. Kaern. My suggestion would be, after you have read the book “When Love Hurts” to read the book “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft. Lundy is a male counsellor who has worked with abusive men for many years. He really helps women to understand the abusive man’s mind frame. Lundy has a great website too. You can google him. Kaern.

]]> By: pussycat http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/why-does-my-partner-hurt-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3117 pussycat Tue, 06 Jul 2010 09:18:35 +0000 http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/why-does-my-partner-hurt-me/#comment-3117 he does not abused me physically he abuses me emotionally he is very cruel he does not abused me physically he abuses me emotionally he is very cruel

]]> By: Charis http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/why-does-my-partner-hurt-me/comment-page-1/#comment-269 Charis Wed, 07 Jan 2009 21:25:59 +0000 http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/why-does-my-partner-hurt-me/#comment-269 I don't understand how they are "myths"? What if some of those things are true? What if he learned at his daddy's knee and is following in his daddy's footsteps? What if he isn't nearly as abusive as his daddy was? What if he has Asperger syndrome? I know that it doesn't JUSTIFY abuse, but doesn't the pain of his unresolved wounds and his mental/emotional/social deficiency explain WHY he does it? I don’t understand how they are “myths”?
What if some of those things are true?
What if he learned at his daddy’s knee and is following in his daddy’s footsteps? What if he isn’t nearly as abusive as his daddy was? What if he has Asperger syndrome?

I know that it doesn’t JUSTIFY abuse, but doesn’t the pain of his unresolved wounds and his mental/emotional/social deficiency explain WHY he does it?

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