Comments on: Is there something wrong with me? http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/something-wrong-with-me/ Fri, 02 Mar 2012 21:03:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Laurel http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/something-wrong-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-90 Laurel Tue, 08 Jul 2008 08:36:09 +0000 http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/is-there-something-wrong-with-me/#comment-90 I am living with all of this. It is so mind-numbing and disheartening to know the truth. Why can't I just realize once and for all, that this isn't going to work? And what is worse (or better) is that I have a journal of our entire relationship that I can't even bear to read. I don't want to know that somehow I knew the sad, sad truth. I am living with all of this. It is so mind-numbing and disheartening to know the truth. Why can’t I just realize once and for all, that this isn’t going to work? And what is worse (or better) is that I have a journal of our entire relationship that I can’t even bear to read. I don’t want to know that somehow I knew the sad, sad truth.

]]> By: Gwen http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/something-wrong-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7 Gwen Sun, 24 Feb 2008 05:23:26 +0000 http://whenlovehurts.ca/2008/02/11/is-there-something-wrong-with-me/#comment-7 The lists in this book were what opened my eyes to the reality of my abusive relationship - there was nothing I could do to make things better. As I read through the lists I was able to tick off so many things - it was quite a shock to me. Before I left 4 years ago I checked off 15 items on the above list. Now I can only check off 5 - I share joint custody so I don't expect to get down to 0 until my children are much older. The lists in this book were what opened my eyes to the reality of my abusive relationship – there was nothing I could do to make things better. As I read through the lists I was able to tick off so many things – it was quite a shock to me. Before I left 4 years ago I checked off 15 items on the above list. Now I can only check off 5 – I share joint custody so I don’t expect to get down to 0 until my children are much older.

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